turning point

someone asked me do i blog?and i said yes.he asked again,what did i write about?i said about everything.then he asked,do my friend knows about my blog?i said,some of them.

why do i said that i write everything when i only wrote about myself?

i only write about me,me and me.i realized that it sounded vain.i should try writing blog about other important issues besides myself.but again,i treat blog as a diary.here is where i pour out my heart.

only some of my friends know about my blog?maybe because i only have some of the friends who would really care about me.some of them who cares enough to read my heart.some of them who cares enough to know hows i'm doing.but again,some of the some that knows about my blog doesn't mean that they read.

i told the one asking that i write blog because sometimes people doesn't listen.and by writing,i can get it all of my chest,honestly.and honestly,people don't listen.i would know because i've been the victim like the whole time.call them selfish because everybody is.call me introvert cause i know i am.but sometimes,even when i speak up,people don't listen.that's the reason i blog.

let's write about serious stuff,other than people don't listen.she told me that the asians are so polite that they beat about the bush meanwhile the western just talk straight to the point.let's say,when we go to someone's house,and he offers us drink,we will say,'oh no it's fine'.while in the west,when we say that,they take it that we really don't want a drink.see my point?

we are so full of civility,which is good.it's what makes us unique and sweet.do u know that most of the western would fall for asians because of our civility and sweetness?so who said that being polite is lame?it may be lame,but it could make someone falls in love with u!

i don't know if people still have this thinking but whoever still think this way really really has to wake up.the theory is:woman has to be in the kitchen.oh please tell me they stop thinking this centuries ago.the kitchen doesn't belongs to the woman only nowadays.the husband should cook once in a while,the children should try baking sometimes.so why do we have to put the woman in the kitchen anymore?anyway,if we look it from the Islam view,husband should provides maid to the wive.of course,now i sound demanding.but again,in this modern world,the careers are open to woman and not man only.and so the woman can be anywhere,not just in the kitchen :)

i promise we will continue our 'grown-up' talk another time.till then,toodles!